Friday, February 19, 2010

Articles on pregnant out of wedlock

Maried By Accident (aka MBA) or may be more familiar to our ears with PREGNANT outside marriage is something that our society is difficult to accept, and of course it raises as well and bring shame to the family will also be a big disgrace the family, and from side of any religion and belief must also not be justified; even in the Great Sin of Islamic belonging. In a research from the 1000 youth participants about consultations (vent) and a poll conducted Sahara Indonesia, where they had sexual intercourse performed in the largest lodging (51.5%). Following kemudia
n at home (30%), at the home of women (27.3%), hotel (11.2%), in the park (2.5%), in place of recreation (2.4%), on campus (1 , 3%), in the car (0.4
%) And unknown (0.7%).

The cause or the biggest problem of pregnancy outside marriage among teenagers due to lack of guidance from the parents. Apart from the lack of guidance from the parents, the other factor that is due to the excessive exploitation of sex through electronic media ie television or through magazines, video clips and movies. Because it's all encourage the teens to perform sexual activities in a very haphazard in their teens. With the view that they think that sex is something that is free and can be done by anyone and anywhere. At the same time, parents also make mistakes by not providing adequate sex education at home, and let their children get the wrong sex pehaman from the media. Finally, do not be surprised if a lot of perceptions that arise among teenagers is like something fun and free of risk (pregnancy or venereal disease).
According to existing research in general, youth group that was most sexual urge of the media which tend to have sex at age 14 - 16 years 2.2 times higher than other teens to see fewer of media exploitation. Human disease cases high Immunodeficiany Virus / Acquired Immnune Deficiency Syndrome (HIV / AIDS), particularly in the youth group, one of the causes promiscuity. The results of research in 12 cities in Indonesia including Denpasar showed 10-31% unmarried adolescents have had sexual intercourse. In the city of Denpasar from 633 students Upper Level High School (SLTA) is just sitting in class II, 155 people or 23.4% had experience of sexual intercourse. There is also news about activities that legalized abortion, because it upholds human rights values. Meanwhile, in a way that sexual relations among adolescents will be increased because of these activities. As for abortion itself has a risk of prolonged suffering to the health or safety of a woman's life. not true to say that someone who had an abortion she "did not feel anything and can go home immediately".
This is a very misleading information for every woman, especially those who are confused because they do not want a pregnancy that has occurred. Health risks to women who had abortions and the health risk physical safety and psychological disorders.

There are some attitudes that can be taken by parents if they have children who experience such problems, namely:
  • 1. Avoid excessive emotion because it would be bad for the child
  • 2. Stay provide support to the child after our disappointment.
  • 3. Do not blame too much to the child, because after all parents have an important role to snagat influence the child's soul itself.
  • 4. Encourage the child to pray to God for forgiveness YME
Many things that can push these things happen, by providing early education about the sexual to the child, the child to understand and not one in the mix.

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